Secret to Picking Up Chicks and Dick
HOW TO APPROACH PEOPLE
A lot of people have problems with this because they are shy or lack confidence. I always tell myself and remind people that there's "plenty of fish," so the worst that could happen when you approach someone is that they will say "NO" and reject you. Don't take rejection as a bad thing. It's a Great thing, because that person saved you TIME! By finding out Early On that the person you've been crushing over is not interested in you, you now have time to focus on other people who Are interested in you. Always remember that you're SPECIAL, because there's ONLY ONE YOU!
So here are some basics to remember!
SMILE- your smile is the MOST important thing you can wear. Make sure you smile genuinely, and sincerely. NO FAKE SMILES. A REAL SMILE lights up your whole face, and lines show up on your face.
BE CONFIDENT- Confidence is sexy. Build your confidence by taking selfies. No, Seriously! When you feel good about yourself, IT WILL SHOW in your pictures. If you're not comfortable in front of the camera, PRACTICE! SEE how other people do it, and COPY THEM! Practice doing different facial expressions, different poses, and work out. When you are in tune with your body, and you love yourself, your attitude and posture will reflect your confidence in the way that you carry yourself. Observe leaders and see how they dress, how they stand, and how they express themselves. Another thing you can do is read. Reading will expand your knowledge, which will also build your confidence if you're knowledgeable on a wide range of subjects.
FACE the people you'rE interested in with your whole body.
PRACTICE making good eye contact! When meeting someone for the first time, take note of their eye color. This is a good way to practice, and if they have nice eyes, compliment them as well. Say something like, "Wow Chris, what color are your eyes? I can't tell! Or you can say Laura, I like how your shirt matches your green eyes."
LEAN IN to show interest! If you pay attention to body language, we always lean in when we're interested, and we do the opposite, and lean back when we hear something we don't like or if we disagree with something.
MOST IMPORTANTLY BE AN ACTIVE LISTENER! Being a good listener is a very important skill to have in any kind or relationship. When you interupt the speaker, it's rude, and it communicates to them that what they are saying is not important. So when you're talking to someone, you become an active listener by leaning in to show interest, you NOD YOUR HEAD to subtly communicate to them that you're encouraging them to go on with what they're saying, and after they're done talking, you can REPEAT IN YOUR OWN WORDS what they just said to show them that you understand their message.
Well this is a simple and short one, guys who go to any sort of speed dating are usualy desperate, because most guys who KNOW WHAT THEY'RE DOING will not want to pay to meet chicks. Plain and simple. Most guys who are on the ball are not going to want to pay for chicks period. And remember, that's coming from a stripper who deals with squeezing money out of guys for a living lol.
Sure, speed dating sounds fun and different, but I think it's a waste of time and money.
You can meet people ANYWHERE, and usually the best and most memorable connections made all happen at the most random times and places. Just focus on improving your social skills-- join a meetup group or club, become a Toastmaster to improve your communication skills, and follow your heart. That way, when you do bump into "The One" your confidence will shine through, and the rest will be history.
THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE
It is important for a girl to Hold Out on some things, like oral and anal sex and give these things to a guy ONLY AFTER he has EARNED it. A man needs to know that those special privileges need to be earned, and that you're not "EASY" because if you're cheap and easily obtained, HE WILL TREAT YOU AS SUCH. Anything worthwhile takes TIME AND EFFORT to build and acquire. This goes for relationships, and obtaining your goals, etc. So a guy will only appreciate you more after he's had to WORK FOR YOU LADIES. SO PUT THE NIGGA TO WORK! MAKE HIM EARN THAT SHIT!
An important thing to take note of is what type of guy you're dealing with. KNOW WHAT HE LIKES. IS HE ROMANTIC? IS HE OUTDOORSY? IS HE A SOCIAL BUTTERFLY? DOES HE ENJOY A BOTTLE OF WINE AND CLASSICAL MUSIC? DOES HE PREFER FISHING OR HUNTING?
AFTER you establish his personality type, THEN you can tailor to him. Get creative if you want to impress your man.
BUT most guys are SIMPLE lmfao. All they want is a cold beer, a sandwich, a blow job, sexy lingerie, and of course, SEX.
ALL THE OTHER BULLSHIT STUFF HE DOES FOR YOU IS TO JUST IMPRESS YOU AND MAKE YOU HAPPY.
But anyways, if you want to make your man feel special, you need to learn his LOVE LANGUAGE. Go pick up a copy of this book called the FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES and find out what your man's love language is, because that is the best way to communicate your love to him for him to receive your message clearly (you'll know what I'm talking about if you've read the book).
You don't have to spend money to show your special someone you love them. Leave them little love notes, write a love letter and mail it to him....
Do things that take TIME, because nowadays in our fast paced world, we need to SLOW DOWN for love. Let's face it, a TEXT MESSAGE is never going to have the same effect as a surprise love letter received in the mail; just like a flower Emoji is DEFINITELY NOT going to bring a smile to your face like A REAL BOUQUET OF FLOWERS AM I RIGHT?
Now what do you do with your guy or girl AFTER you've got them?
FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF THEM DUH!!!! ^.^
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